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DWELLING ON or IN THE PAST
Whenever the subject of memories of past sins, either those done
by us or to us, aside from
Scripture references on the subject, I can't help but be reminded
of a bumper sticker I once
saw which stated, "When Satan Reminds You Of Your Past, Remind
Him Of His Future."
Certainly, if satan can distract us from service to our Lord then
our salvation is endangered
(2 Corinthians 11:3). In secular discussions one may introduce
the concept of "playing old
tapes" to describe the resurrection of painful memories. This
phraseology is probably an apt
analogy, in modern day terms, to the process employed by satan.
Our discussion will
address God's will for us both in terms
of being encumbered by guilt and shame
over our
past sins and in terms of putting behind us/not holding on to
those physical/emotional/mental injuries inflicted upon us by
others.
Let us start by briefly addressing two basic concepts, guilt and
shame. Guilt has two general
meanings applicable to our spiritual health. Guilt can refer to
accountability and
answerability in judgment for sin. We are "guilty" of committing
the sin of (fill in the blank)
and stand in condemnation by God until such time as we
acknowledge our guilt, repent and
ask for forgiveness (Ezekiel 21:24; Hosea 5:15; Luke 17:3; and 1
John 1:9). In this instance
guilt simply signifies the commission of a sin and can be in the
present tense (unrepentant/unforgiven) or past tense
(repentant/forgiven). Guilt can also refer to the remorse
associated with having committed sin. This negative feeling
(guilt) can have a positive effect
if it leads to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:9-10) or a negative
effect if it continues after
repentance and forgiveness. It is
this holdover of
destructive remorse after forgiveness (generally a failure tofully accept God's forgiveness)
that is to be avoided.
sin (Psalm
53:, 97:7; Isaiah
42:17, 44:9, 45:16; Jeremiah 2:26, 3:25, 8:9; Ezekiel 44:13;
Daniel 9:7-8; Micah 3:7). Shame
has both a private and a public component although both are
linked to our interaction with
others. The private component generally denotes a fear of
exposure (2 Corinthians 4:2) and
the public component denotes the disgrace and humiliation
resulting from public exposure
of our sin. (See Matthew 1:19 for an illustration of the concept
even though no sin was
involved.) Shame is actually one of God's tools that can prompt
repentance (2
Thessalonians 3:14) and to be without shame (shameless) is in one
sense associated with
behavior of the wicked (Proverbs 13:5; Jeremiah 6:15; 8:12,
13:27; Zephaniah 3:5; Romans
1:27; Ephesians 5:12; Philippians 3:19). To be avoided is the
negative impact upon our
spiritual health caused by unwarranted/excessive feelings of
shame over our past sins.
The last issue to be addressed is that of holding on to the
memories of what others may
have done to us in the past. While we are to forgive (Matthew
6:15, 18:35, etc.), we may
not be able to forget and it is what we do with those memories
that are at issue. In essence,
we are faced with choices. We can choose to be victims
or we can choose to be someone who, although victimized, has
gotten on with their life. We
can choose to accept God's renewal as a new creature
or we can accept satan's whispers that we are forever tainted.
We can choose to use our
past as an excuse for our present transgressions or we can accept
responsibility and
accountability for our actions. We can look forward or we canlook backward. We choose
the blessing or the curse, life or death (Deuteronomy
30:15-19).
With the issues identified, let us look at God's will for us
in these matters.
- We must put our past in persective. Paul considered all
that he had lost to be but
rubbish compared to what he gained through knowing Christ Jesus
(Philippians 3:8).
- Following the example of Paul we should forget what lies
behind and reach forward
to what lies ahead, pressing on toward the goal for the prize of
the upward call of God in
Christ Jesus (Philippians 3:13-14).
- Keep in mind that our citizenship is in heaven (Philippians
3:20).
- Our minds are to dwell upon the positive, not the negative
(Philippians 4:8-9).
- Following the natural example of a woman in childbirth our
pain and sorrow is to be
forgotten and replaced with joy (John 16:20-22).
- In a general sense, diverting our energies to personal issues
after heeding Christ's call
is not consistent with acceptable service (Luke 9:59-62). "No
one, after putting his hand to
the plow and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God." (See
also the excuses offered in
Luke 14:18-20.)
- When tempted to look back consider Jesus' admonition found in
Luke 17:32 to
"Remember Lot's wife."
- Remember that "the sorrow of the world produces death." (2
Corinthians 7:10)
- If God blots out our sins upon repentance and forgiveness(Hebrews 8:12, 10:17) why
should we continue to hold them against ourselves and engage in
self flagellation over dead
issues?
- If we have backslidden we are to remember our former
righteous condition and repent (Revelation 2:5, 3:2-3).
Two final issues will be addressed. The first is that of looking
back at our past sinful life with regret, not regret for having
committed sin, but regret for having turned from sin. We are not
talking about experiencing the temptation to again engage in some
particular sin, but rather remembering with fondness our past
sinful activities. (See Exodus 14:10-12, 16:3, 17:3, 32:1-6; 1
Corinthians 10:6-11.) The unacceptability of such behavior can
reasonably be inferred from the words of Jesus in Luke 9:62 when
He said, "No one, after putting his hand to the plow and lookig
back, is fit for the kingdom of God." As He later most
graphically stated, "Remember Lot's wife." (Luke 17:32; Genesis
19:17,26) Our attitude should rather be like Paul when his
remembrance of past sins reflected mere acknowledgment rather
than pride (Acts 22:4-5 and 1 Timothy 1:15). (See also 2
Corinthians 7:10.)
Lastly, it is the unforgiven (continual/unrepentant) sin which is
to be remembered and cause us grief. If we seek to blot that sin
from our memories we are in danger of developing hardened hearts
and jeopardizing our salvation (Ephesians 4:17-19; Hebrews
3:8,13,15, 4:7).
Copyright &Copy: 1996 by R.W. Sutliff, All Rights Reserved.